It’s important to make friendships that are deeper than gossiping and drinking and smoking and going out.
Make friends who you can go get breakfast with, make friends you can cry with, make friends who support your life goals and believe in you.
Find someone that makes your heart race, but not with anxiety.
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| — | There’s a difference (via s-ensitivus) |
You’ll meet her, she’s very pretty, even though sometimes she’s sad for many days at a time. You’ll see, when she smiles, you’ll love her.
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| — | Pan’s Labyrinth, Dir. Guillermo del Toro (via wordsnquotes) |
You don’t have to be grateful that it isn’t worse.
read that.
read it again, and again, and again.
somebody, somewhere, always has it worse than you. there is one person on this planet that has it the worst of all, and that person is NOT the only person allowed to be unhappy with their lot.
if things are bad for you, they are bad for you. period.This goes for trauma as well. A lot of times survivors get trapped in a cycle of minimizing/diminishing their trauma because “other people have it worse” - but there is no hierarchy of trauma. There is no ranking system for which traumas are “better” or “worse.” Your trauma is valid. Period.
IMPORTANT TRUTHS.
I realize that dear, you aren’t here to wait for someone to love you back. You are here to love someone even if, in the slightest hope, they won’t do the same.
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| — | retrouvailleset (via wordsnquotes) |
